HOW DOES SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS MAKES US GROWING?

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I’m not gonna debate, whether social media platforms are good or bad. That’s not my purpose of this post.

I’m not blindly or strategically gonna say only pros apart from cons.

What I personally feel growing, from these social media. If you take any of these(platform), actually people are here to guide, to motivate and most precisely without getting anything from you, me (money, fame). I do agree and learned.

“There ain’t no such thing as a free lunch”.

Or.

“The price what you pay, the value what you get” said by Warren Buffett. Still, a few sets of people are here.

Things apart.

Articulately, my Blog, my Facebook page is growing bit. Even I’m following quite a lot of motivational speakers and valuable personalities. I felt, so far good for the last 2 years. I deeply indulged to see more players are really mentoring.

We can move this pace forward. In fact, what I’m learning right now, I’m still getting ready/prepare to guide mentor, someone.

I feel very good.

It’s my gratitude to all.

 

With respect.

ESSENTIAL MANAGER’S MANUAL: BY ROBERT HELLER AND TIM HINDLE.

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UNDERSTANDING AND USING GESTURES:

Gestures, together with non-verbal communications such as posture and facial expressions, are an important part of body language. Knowing how to gesture for effect, on public platforms or in face-to-face meetings, will help to convey your message.

POWER TIPS:

  • If you are not sure how to behave abroad, ask the locals for guidance.
  • Make sure you are not unintentionally wearing a hostile expression.
  • Practice a range of gestures in front of a mirror to find those that look natural for you.

RECOGNIZING GESTURES:

All skilled public speakers use gestures for emphasis.

For example, John F. Kennedy used a chopping motion, while Hitler shook his fist.

Remember that over assertive gestures, such as banging a table, or other signs of anger can alienate people. Also, if you do bang a table, take care not to drown your words.

Single gestures may combine to form complex patterns. For instance, in a private meeting, you may recognize that a colleague is appraising you while listening to you, by the position of their fingers on their cheek or chin. However, to know whether the appraisal is positive or negative, you need to observe other signs, whether their legs are crossed defensively, or if their head and chin are lowered aggressively.

GIVING BODY SIGNALS:

Supportive gestures, such as making eye contact and nodding while somebody is talking, create empathy. Everyone can control their body language to an extent, but not totally. Choose your words with care, being as honest as possible, otherwise, your body language may contradict you.
With respect.

ARE YOU CRAZY?

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Being or feeling crazy doesn’t mean you aren’t right or you don’t have clarity.

If would you like to take an inspirational American business magnate, entrepreneur and investor who was the co-founder of Apple Inc. Steve Jobs. The man who was crazy to deliver premium products across the globe.

Mr Jobs was full of passionate and crazy to do the stuff. That’s the ultimate point where the was Apple born.

They ready to do/make mistakes and swallow the losses. They are an experimental persona. They take phenomenal challenges. And they bounce back finally.

 

With respect.

RIGHT TIME:

I’m not gonna talk about the perfect moment. Because successful people say, there is nothing called a perfect moment.

This is the right time.

This is the right day.

I will attach these lines in my everyday journal often.

There is no good or bad time. If would you like to start something, what you love! This is the right time. This is the right day.

We are driven by hesitation and surrounded by naysayers. Ringing in our ear and they simply say, this isn’t the right time.

When I started writing, I have no idea to start a blog or Facebook page. I just keep on writing. I love writing. I feel I have to write. Eventually, I just started it. Because with no hesitation I started. I knew that I’m gonna face lot of naysayers. I knew that I don’t have any writing skills.

Just a sec, I thought this the right time to start.

Whatever it is.

If we our-self still don’t know, when and where to start. Nothing works.

At some point in time, if you start realizing I have to start something. Have some preparation for work. If not, fine, jump into it. That’s your right time.

If you had chosen today is the day to do the things, no way and no compromise you have to get ready and start at that particular moment.

 

With respect.

 

 

MY BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS:

These books contain all aspects with regards to your professional and successful carrier. So far, from reading and getting recommendations from online and offline.

These are the 12 books. I read a few and some books are still yet to read. Over the past 7 years, I was reading a lot. Readers who are reading my blog post knew that 2 books (SIN, SEX AND SELF-CONTROL by NORMAN VINCENT PEALE and THE FIVE TEMPTATIONS OF A CEO by PATRICK LENCIONI). I had updated in my blog.

Apart from those two, I would like to recommend 12 books to read along with your favourite books. I sincerely suggest you can add my books to your book-shelf.

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The last two books are vast. I think that’s not a matter for a reader. To understand those two, you have to dedicate yourself. I started reading those two. It’s insightful. I strongly recommend. Ladies and gentleman. Go-Ahead.

 

With respect.

AM I COMMITTED? ON THESE 3 QUESTIONS.

Certain questions you need to ask yourself before asking your mentors/others. Before committing towards your goals. Aspiring successful people jump into their clarity and strategy.

Their questions are:

Do I have the clarity on my goals?

What strategy do I need to reach the goals?

That’s it!

I’m gonna succeed.

Period

These questions are absolutely needed. I’m not denying.

Ladies and gentleman.

But unless you need to learn to commit. You must have a set of questions. To learn yourself.

I’m not saying that you must have the clarity and strategy when you decided towards your goals. But only some people have a clear mind when they had chosen their goals. Some might not.

Here, my questions are apart from the clarity and strategy.

  1. Am I still committed on my goals, even if I fall in the depth or on the peak?
  2. Am I gonna make sacrifice my time till success knocks your door?
  3. Even if my success takes a decade or more to attain it. Am I ready to commit?

 

With respect.

DISTRACTION-FREE WORKPLACE:

How did you make a workplace a distraction-free?

Because, if we are looking for productivity. We must make the workplace to be good.

But, logically we can say, there is nothing called the good workplace. Rather we can create from our home or visiting a library.

The library is fantastic for work.

But in our home, we can create distraction-free. By keeping the best/favourite books, adequate stationeries, papers, board and PC. Keep your mobiles/Telephones in an Airplane mode or silent mode. There are enough possibilities to create such kind of workplace.

Let’s paint the wall, paste the wallpapers and charts. Looks delightful. You could able to feel the sensation.

Whenever you are in the room, you can do the job well-focused.

I knew that it’s all comes from inside of the mind. Also, if the outside of the structure looks or feels good. Your mind will stretch towards productivity.

 

With respect.

 

STAY BUSY:

So far, I was talking about productivity. This is something important I wanna convey. In the least precise manner.

Be busy on improving yourself. There is nothing wrong if you are learning and growing.

Never mind someone’s job. Because they knew their plan. So, they keep on improving, they aren’t like you. They never compare.

Who are they (I’m mentioning)?

They are successful people. They never mind others. They knew what it takes to succeed.

When you are gonna be one of them?

So, just keep on doing. Have a successive feeling. Even though, failure will cross your road.

Go-Ahead.

 

 

With respect.

A SOUND KNOWLEDGE:

Not sounds awkward.

We should have sound knowledge. But it doesn’t mean we have to reach perfection.

To be at the level of sound knowledge. You must have to maintain some sort of consistency in the particular or several fields. It not mandatory you must be in a specific field. People are there with multi-ambitious mindset. This post should not affect them.

If you take me, for instance, I’m multi-ambitious. Not too many but certain fields, I’m interested. Which I keep on working for the past seven years. So, nothing wrong with it.

Things will work if you are ready to put efforts. No matter how many things.

Have a set of patience. To get the best results. Don’t jump onto conclude to quit.

I often reiterate to several contents. “Rome wasn’t built in a day”. Or Great things take time”.

Sound knowledge is not a destination that you need to reach.

But if would you like to learn. You have to have a mentality as keep on learning.

It’s all about willingness that makes you move every single day.

No matter how many mistakes you are making.

Or

How many failures you had attained?

How many naysayers you are facing?

It’s all up to you. To keep upgrading.

 

With respect.

 

ESSENTIAL MANAGER’S MANUAL: BY ROBERT HELLER AND TIM HINDLE.

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This week, I’m sharing the notes for the topic.

UNDERSTANDING THE BODY LANGUAGE:

Your body language is a huge range of unconscious physical moments-can strengthen communication or damage it. Even if you are sitting completely still, you may be unknowingly communicating a powerful message about your real feelings.

POWER TIPS:

  • When standing with people, leave a personal space of about 1 m (3 ft).
  • Take a slow, deep breath to relax, if you are feeling tense.

COMMUNICATING BY BODY LANGUAGE:

Posture id all-important in body language. On a first meeting, these three postures would create very different impressions. The positive posture might have the best effect on the outcome by encouraging open communication, while the negative one would make communication difficult. Also Neutral one says, direct gaze shows attention and relaxed arms and legs shows lack of tension.

READING BODY LANGUAGE:

For instance, if the people are inwardly feeling comfortable because they are lying, their awkward body language will betray the lie.

CONQUERING NERVES:

Nervousness is due in part to glands pumping the hormone adrenaline into their blood. Use body language to appear more confident than you feel by making a conscious effort to smile and to relax your arms.

Look people in the eye while you are talking or listening to them, keep your posture comfortably straight, do not fiddle with your hands.

KEEP YOUR DISTANCE:

For instance, guests at social gatherings stand closer to each other than strangers in a non-social situation. Always take care not to intrude into another’s personal territory in case you arose defensive or hostile reactions.

CREATING AN IMPRESSION:

First impressions are very important. It is thought that the initial five seconds of any first meeting is more important than the next five minutes.

Think about grooming and appropriate clothing, and err on the conservative side. Even if an informal look is required, ensure your garments and shoes are in impeccable condition. Before going into a meeting, check your appearance in a mirror to make sure that your hair is tidy.

MAKING AN IMPACT:

Grooming and posture always create an impression. Be smart and don’t be untidy.

 

With respect.