If you would like to achieve, you have to give more not in monetary terms also you have to convey the valuable message to the people. You should not expect the benefits for the work. No rewards and awards. A selfless leader never expects anything from the teammates, if he/she expects they aren’t.

Give more services.

Teach more.

There is nothing wrong if you are giving more. You should make a habit of giving.

A valuable person always gives a lot and leaves the rich legacy to the globe.

Please don’t reveal what you had given.

With Respect.

NO SUBSTITUTES: SKILLS THAT ARE FAR MOST IMPORTANT. 
There are a certain set of skills required in order to start up or to secure a place in the fortune companies. 

1. LISTENING: I wanna start with certain sequential orders that people are struggling very badly. We often talk a lot. But we don’t like to listen and we don’t wanna listen. The power of listening has been enormously going down. People would like to talk a lot, but they don’t pay attention to the opposite person. My straight forward statement is we don’t have the patience to listen. This is the foremost mandatory skill everyone has to equip.

2. WHAT TO COMMUNICATE: Be precise about what you wanna say, Be clear and crisp. Don’t forget to say the right word. Say with facts. 

3. WRITING: There is nothing called a short sentence or a long sentence. If you wanna write, what you wanna write? Have a purpose. Don’t make too much story. Don’t be too short. Write about what you would like to convey. Take care of your grammars. If it’s a business letter, use business terminology. the words you had written a should be professional and genuine.

4. TYPING: I mean, typewriting skill, I’m not giving a silly statement. Right now, we all have computers. None of them is writing. Of course, we should write at least 30 minutes a day. As far as, computer playing a prominent role. We should have the typing skill, WPM matters (WORDS PER MINUTE). There are huge resources are available to learn the habit of typing. If you are typing as fast as, it makes you finish work very fast. 

5. KNOWLEDGE: Upgrade yourself, there is nothing wrong with self-learning. You should know what’s going on. You have to read books a minimum of 3 books every month. Read newspaper and magazines that give you a brief understanding.

With Respect.

We still don’t know why we are sad?

We still don’t know what causes us sad?

We still couldn’t pinpoint what are the regrets?

We still couldn’t find the solutions for our regrets?

Jeff Bezos, rightly pointed out, HAVE NO REGRETS.

If you aren’t productive, you can regret, if you are not a good leader, you can regret. We are still unnecessarily holding out our regrets.

Regrets will cause psychological damage and Sleep deprivation. It will naturally make you weak. Even, if you got success, something will keep on affecting you.

Never carry the regrets, not required at all. You need to find the solution for regrets. You have to know why I’m sad. Every human carries regrets. I’m not denying, but well still don’t know what are those?

Do whatever it takes, there is still room for improvement. Work hard and smart.

No regrets, please.

With Respect.

I would like to talk about Quitting is the very bad habit, also I say never ever give up.

But, when it came to strategic quit, it’s the best option to move on it.

“strategic quitting is the secret of successful organizations. Reactive quitting and serial quitting are the bane of those that strive (and fail) to get what they want. And most of the people do just that. They quit when it painful and stick when they can’t be bothered to quit”.

-SETH GODIN, Book name THE DIP.

Giving up is not the worst option, knowing when giving up is the best option. Please don’t give when it painful or you been lost. Quit when and where. You should know the psychology of quitting.

Often, Entrepreneurs and businessman’s, they watch the market very well. They knew when to realize the product or services. They knew when to step back. It doesn’t mean, they are lost or they don’t know? They are well aware of market fluctuation. They visualize pretty well.

With Respect.

The first step to life is life is you should be “PRESENT”.

YOU SHOULD LIVE IN THIS PARTICULAR MOMENT. NO PAST AND NO FUTURE.

Past is over, present are unwritten, Once if it is over you can’t get it back, You still don’t can’t predict what will happen tomorrow. But in this second, you can live your life with a conscious mind. To live life, you have to know,

What is right?

What is wrong?

The most fundamental questions are to realize whether it is right or wrong?

Every day, we are learning the lessons from someone or some situation or from defeat.

But, we must learn the lesson, in order to live life in the better way, we can’t blame anyone, unfortunately, stuff happens.

Moreover, how you react to the situation? Matters most.

Take a pledge as this is gonna be the best day in my life, I have to be 100%.

No more negative, no more harmful to yourself and others too.

Work is worship.

With Respect.

STRENGTH, WEAKNESS, OPPORTUNITIES, AND THREATS.

This is the most well-known analysis everybody knows. Even for individuals and organizations.

To be a growth-oriented persona, we need to take some analysis.

STRENGTH: We knew very well, what is our strength. But how far we are strong enough is also a very big question.

Are you 100%, when it comes to strength?

This single question decides your strength. No more.

OPPORTUNITIES: Every day, we could able to see there are enough opportunities, but grabbing is the most important one. Rather than waiting for the opportunities, we can search for it. and we can seize it. we must seize. That’s the turning point of life.

WEAKNESS: Most of us don’t know what is our weakness? we couldn’t list out. Because we are hesitated to show our weakness. Even, 4 years ago, I was totally blind, if someone asks, what was your weakness? I will say without thinking a moment, I don’t have a weakness. Seems crazy, everybody laughs. Right now, I knew a weak spot. I knew my pitfalls. I knew that where I’m lagging. Everybody has their own set of weakness. We should say what is what and we need to overcome.

THREATS: we still couldn’t identify the differences in Weakness and Threats. I personally say that weakness is the short term effect. The threat is the Long-term effect.

Every decision we make are those ones, it will make a huge impact on the future. Whether it is good or bad. We must identify the threats every day. A small threat will have a huge loss in the future.

Here, Successful people knew very well. what is my strength? They never bother about it.

Also, they knew their weakness too. They will start working on their weakness and threats. If you overcome your weakness and threats you will be the GOAT.

GREATEST OF ALL TIME.

Let’s take this analysis.

With Respect.

When it comes to journaling, It should make an impact throughout the day.

It might be a gratitude journal, positive journal, you are writing your goals for the day.

I have these set of format to write the journal. I hope that it will make sense for all of you.

Starts with,

Today is the gonna be the most valuable day for me. I have to find deep calmness upon myself. I have to rebuild my personality in order to succeed. I have to read a lot, listen a lot, write a lot, and then speak a lot. I should be fit with physically, mentally, intellectually, spiritually, sensitively. I have to pay attention to my mind and soul rather than looking at others. I must better than I was yesterday. Time management = life management. I must allocate a certain amount to the tasks. I must be genuine with regards to character. I must be productive with regards to work. I have to be more balanced. Even though, I should be ready to accept the burnouts. I need to learn to handle stress. Every night, I must prepare To-Do-List for the upcoming day. I have to create the habit of “Do what you love and Love what you Do”.

Thank you, Almighty,

I’m feeling great.

With Respect.

Yeah, I should say on my writing skill in a straightforward manner.

Seems, like I was totally struggling to do more time on research. THIS IS THE HONEST STATEMENT.

We see that, at the starting point of time, we are very good at it, but after a certain point in time. We are in DIP. Same problem I’m facing right now. The Dip teaching me a lot of lessons. I have a topic; the more precise reason is I need to do a lot of research.

As I was started saying from my first post and a few of the post, I can’t throw the words blindly. I have to convey the values to the reader. THIS IS THE MOTTO OF THE ASPIRING READER. I personal commitment to myself, maybe those who reading lines this can take this as a motto.

A writer must write as He/she must breathe and He/she keeps on doing it, despite the loneliness, despite the poverty, despite the rejection letters, despite the parent or the wife, who call out you fool, why don’t you get a real job.

–THESE STIMULATING LINES ARE FROM THE MOVIE “THE WIFE”.

With Respect.

Inspirational poetry.
A Father speaking to his son. 
How to become a complete man?
These aren’t words, these are the wisdom. 
Life changing lovable lines, I salute.

If you can keep your head when all about you 
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, 
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too; 
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream—and not make dreams your master; 
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim; 
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same; 
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone, 
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, 
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run, 
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, 
And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son!

With Respect.

If you conquer your mind, you can conquer the entire world.

You can notice that even someday you have good or bad. It’s not a situation or the day was favorable for you. Your mind pays more attention to that particular day. Your attitude was very clear. You feel passionate. But someday very bad, you are feeling mentally lazy. You cannot think. You just don’t know what’s going on, in and out. You feel hard to recover from it. In fact, you cannot sleep too.

It happens, the mind is the monkey.

What do you feed in every morning?

The thought-provoking process happens, once if you feed the right things in the morning.

Take care of your mind. And feed it properly.

Successful people have a set of habits:

1. They start writing their Journal, a positive one, they write their dreams and plans. They feed the mind with tasks.

2. They are far more mentally stronger.

3. They won’t blindly waver the mind. They have a set of mission in order to run the day productively.

4. They have crystal clarity.

With Respect.