Why am I saying this to you?

Because you could be loyal and you can pay gratitude to the people.

Even more, you can be straight forward. That is actually too good. That’s what am doing right now. Being quite straight forward is the better way to maintain the relationship.

A gentle reminder: You should not be rude or using abusive words.

I think, being nice to the people is the threat. They might take advantage of you. There is a possibility of manipulation. If they know, you are too comfortable. They will start treating you as they want.

One more way, what I do is maintaining professionalism with all. That is wonderful. In the working arena/with higher authority/janitor.

Being professional is the finest way to make you as an excellent person.

Those above lines, what I said is not mandatory for everywhere. At somewhere and some point, learn to apply it.

I always say to myself, you should know the power of “when”.

Several attitudes you should know “when” to apply.

It’s better to apply, presence of mind in any situation. According to the situation, people will respond. There is no point of criticizing them back, It’s fair enough. If you deal with them.

At this moment, I can highly recommend a book. “How to win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie. This book also will teach a lot with regards to dealing with people.

Apart from my above statement, I started reading this book too.

 

With respect.

 

Last month, I got it from Pinterest. I would love to share with you all. Let’s apply these ways.

1. Write things down.
2. Chunking.
3. Acronyms.
4. Practice, practice, practice.
5. Superior focus.
6. Test yourself.
7. Silly sentences.
8. Teach it to someone.
9. Drink water.
10. Read more.
11. Little and often.
12. Make it a story.
13. Say things out loud.
14. Ask why.
15. Get enough sleep.

 

Sources: by@inner_drive | www.innerdrive.co.uk

With respect.

Over the last 5 years, I had seen lots of times on my Facebook. Also, I downloaded several times. When I saw this line, something I started looking for deep meaning.

Every successful person maintains calmness. Of course, they are aggressive. They (successful people) never be unusually aggressive.

We could be rigorous, ferocious, voracious. Apart from everything, we should create/maintain inner calmness. So, by developing a calm attitude. We can easily overcome the distress and precisely the flow of our thought/work will be smooth.

Things will be chaotic. But, if you apply the calm approach, there is enough possibility of getting things done.

Why am I talking about the calmness?

Quite honestly, I had seen people in real life. Their state of mind was too calm. They approach well enough with regards to work. Their talk and personality were too superb.

I, wonder.

Why can’t I? and

How can I maintain/create the calmness?

Apart from meditation and yoga. I can say, sit with nature. Pay attention ladies and gentleman. just look at nature. “Just look”.

Or.

Notice yourself.

Or.

Listen to your breath.

Or.

Track the way of doing your work. There is a possibility that you could notice, where am I?

These are the stuff that I’m doing it right now. Because I started realizing the importance of calmness in my carrier and my entire life.

I knew that it wasn’t a task. Although, I should develop my character as a calm human.

My respectable avid readers, you can follow the art of being calm.

 

With respect.

 

 

There are two ways my writing mood occurs. One is I will maintain a set of time every night after the dinner to post the blog. Probably, the time differs. On another side, I will start writing when the idea/content born.

Nowadays, I feel, I have to write. I don’t know, about the addiction of writing. But I still feel like, I have to keep writing. Not at the time of posting the blog. At least, I have to write more than twice or thrice.

I often too careful about the mood before writing. I should not be too upset with feelings overloaded. I should prepare to write. So far, learning from every day, I have to prepare immediately, If I have the content. Blindly, I could not keep thinking in front of a paper. Better I could jump into it. If I have the content, I should myself willing to write. Maybe, I can think the whole day. But when it comes to writing. I must write. Later I can edit.

I need a spontaneous way of thinking. So, I need to develop it. I have to make a habit.

How?

By creating a mood on writing.

Better, how I eat, sleep and day to activities occur in our life. I’m gonna add writing into it.

Writing is a part of my day-to-day activity.

We knew the mood swings, right. Let’s have writing as a mood.

Let’s create a mood, we are gonna write a maximum three times a day to develop a writing mood.

 

With respect.

Often/sometimes, we have too much of thoughts that’s been flowing.

Often/sometimes, we feel like no thoughts. We don’t know what to think. Sounds awkward.

Often/sometimes, we have just a single thought that drives/dominates/upsets the day.

Or better we should not give an emotional reaction to our thoughts.

Let it be! I learned from Buddha. Because we cannot control our thoughts. Even, we cannot stop it.

Rather, let’s consider and reconsider, Buddha point of view. Let it be, alright.

Stay quiet when the thought flows.

Better observe the thoughts.

One more step, let’s create the habit of prioritizing the thoughts.

This is what I’m doing right now.

What I observed so far?

What I usually do is prioritizing my thoughts. I cannot judge the thought or I cannot plan the thought. But, if the thoughts are flowing/running. Better, I feel let’s leave this particular thought. If certain thoughts are unusual/awkward/notorious. Let’s leave it. Let’s create a habit.

I have a bad habit of overthinking. (Actually, I posted about overthinking)

Sometimes things go beyond my control. But, sometimes I consciously take care of my thoughts.

If we cannot learn to handle our thoughts, it’s very hard to focus on our work.

I often say, our thoughts decide the day. Especially in the morning. We should be too careful about the thought.

Every morning, we should create a habit of positive/optimistic thought. If negative thoughts arise, let it be. Or prioritize it. Or replace it.

Take care of your thoughts.

 

With respect.

 

 

 

 

 

I still don’t know. Why am I writing this content again and again? I think this is a 3^rd time.

What I would like to say to myself. Also, to everyone. I think we need to be strong mentally.

Why mentally?

The decision and determination start with a mental viewpoint. I mean, how you think on certain stuff and how you approach the things matters most.

If you think, you had decided to go to the gym every day without fail/procrastinate.

Of course, you are gonna get a good shape. So, where the point starts, It starts with your decision and determination. Your mind and heart say to do it. No matter what. Your mind stretches you to go to a gym.

From my first blog, I knew that my words and sentences are sounds like an amateur. I knew that I’m not a professional writer. I knew that I don’t have writing skills. Although, I know that, things won’t work as I expect or dream as a writer. Before writing my first post (blog), I dreamt a lot. I’m gonna write such great posts. The reality of writing is, I’m not gonna say it’s too hard. But I would like to say, it takes time to be a professional writer. So, I will wait, I’m still waiting to get a good rhythm. Even some days, things never work. Let’s work and let’s see.

Just, we need to learn if the things aren’t working out and we must bounce back. If we cannot learn from setbacks. There is no possibility to get the chance of success.

Finally, we should not sit or fall. Rather we can prove that we can do it.

 

With respect.

 

Yesterday, I got a pic from an Instagram page. 14 movies for entrepreneurs. But I keep on searching movies for entrepreneurs. Finally, I got the 20 movies for entrepreneurs. I’m quite happy to share with you all.

1. The Social Network. (2010)
2. Jerry Maguire. (1996)
3. Joy. (2015)
4. Wall Street. (1987)
5. The Devil Wears Prada. (2006)
6. Office Space. (1999)
7. Erin Brockovich. (2000)
8. The Founder. (2016)
9. Baby Boom. (1987)
10. Big Night. (1996)
11. Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory. (1971)
12. It’s a Wonderful Life. (1946)
13. Tommy Boy. (1995)
14. The Intern. (2015)
15. The Pursuit of Happyness. (2006)
16. You’ve Got Mail. (1998)
17. Moneyball. (2011)
18. Steve Jobs. (2015)
19. The Big Short. (2015)
20. Chef. (2014)

If I missed some of the movies. Please add in the comments below.

Sources: https://www.fundera.com/blog/best-entrepreneur-movies

 

With respect.

Trust very few.

I was often hungry for motivational quotes. This is the quote I had seen often over the last 3 years several times. Respect is the most valuable one, you should give it to the people. When you are reaching an upper level in life, you should learn well to respect others. It cannot be advised by others to you unless you realize.

When it comes to trust, you cannot be blind to all. If you have a huge set of people are trustful. That’s great. A trust is not coming by wealth/power. It comes with an understanding of people. It’s like a bond. Lifelong bond.

I think human mind has two sides like coins. Either keeping a full of trust on everybody or never trust anyone.

For me, what I think is, please don’t trust too sooner, please don’t decide, I’m not gonna trust anyone.

Trust few, you actually knew your surroundings. Who are they?

With the matter of trust, no more blind view. If people are distrust to you, the relationship becomes valueless. Then it seems very hard, again to keep build trust with the existing or new one.

To be more specific, three things you should never break:

1. Trust.
2. Promise.
3. Heart.

Here, we can learn more about, how trust plays. So, learn how to trust a person. A trust might happen in a fraction of second or even it takes years.

But, please don’t forget to respect all. I already made a post on “Learn to respect yourself”. Then you should learn again to respect others.

Dear readers, if you have any thoughts on trust or any additional point should I have to include. Please down the comments below.

Others could be benefitted. Particularly, me.

 

With respect.

 

 

 

 

Ladies and gentleman. Pay attention, please.

I’m not giving a multitasking motivation. I’m conscious of this topic. Although, I’m writing with consciousness.

In the initial point of time, people say, please stop multitasking. In this dynamic world, we have to learn to be a multitasker, at least some point. we might adapt to multitask. Not too much of the tasks. But we knew the priority right! So, let’s plan the tasks, we should learn to do with a bare minimum of 2 tasks and maximum three. This is what I suggest. But, the capacity of humans varies from one to another. What I think is, we should be more careful with handling those tasks. More importantly, it should not make us to burnout or mental stress/all the tasks should not get ruined.

Why I had chosen to do multitask/ to write the topic about multitasking.

What I’m feeling is, getting this done. Along with productivity is also a more important one. I’m not sure about if you multitask, the work gonna be productive. May or might be. So, I would like to repeat again let’s do some multitask in the day. Things have to settle. Let’s adjust ourselves.

If the above statements might seem critical or notorious. Sorry, bare with me. I would like to write one more opinion.

Write the priorities. If we have five priorities. If the first is almost important. Please finish it off, the first one. Don’t concentrate on the others. But when it comes to priority number 4 and 5. We might consider doing the 4 and 5 simultaneously. I don’t know how this sounds to you all my dear avid readers. This is my opinion and suggestions.

If this is not working out. Kindly leave it. Also, readers can suggest a thought in the comments below.

Can we do this multitasking to getting things done?

Readers, please don’t mistake me. I’m feeling awkward to write this particular topic. My view and I’m suggesting. In fact, I’m wrong. Please, comments below.

 

With respect.

It is such a proud to run my 13^th marathon. 21 kilometres with irregular practice. Sounds bad to you all. Even though it sounds, but I have to run, I need to stay engaged with my game. If I run least monthly once, I will know myself,

Where am I?

What’s my position?

My bad chip time is 02:53:10 seconds.

No matter.

I feel like still, I can do more if I practice regularly. When I was running, my mind wanders.

What if I practice every day?

What if I keep my fitness regime at a good level?

Feeling horrible. If I stopped at that moment, I lost. Because I should not do that. That’s not my sport ethic. Foremost, I should run. Eventually, I will know myself where am I?

The pain and pleasure taught me a lot.

The feelings. I could not express through words.

This is the second year I’m running. Last I ran with a bit good chip time 02:10:37 seconds. With a good amount of practice. I agree with myself.

What should I do?

I have to maintain discipline.

I have to work on every day.

I have to take care of my game.

At last, I’m quite happy, I got a finisher medal. It’s bronze.

 

With respect.